Friday, August 21, 2009

ways to understand girls

well i know..its quite A LOT..but to me..if you love that girl to much and full with honesty..i think it worth..but dun over doing it..because..girls r human and man r human too..we always do a mistake..but..its bout girls..complicated..trust me..i know it..and guys..u r born with a beautiful patient..yes! i know..patient also have a limit..actually..i don't know man..just give a best that u can do to ur relation..same goes to girl..don't only depends on man..to me.. give and take is the best way to achieve a wonderful LOVE

1.when a girl is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind.

2. when a girl says "nothing", she's really just wishing you'd try to understand and hold her close.

3. when a girl looks down, it means she's feeling uncomfortable.

4. a girl only worries because she cares for you more than you'll ever know.

5. don't ever lie to girls, because they do find out.

6. don't look away and talk to someone else when she talks to you. it somehow hurts.

7. when a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.

8. when a girl talks about the future with you, she's thinking about an entire future with you.(oh! i like dis..i always do this..hahaha)

9. a girl can care for you so much that she may even forget to care for herself.

10. don't say sorry if you dont mean it. only say sorry when you've done something wrong and will never repeat it again. if you were to repeat it, don't say it.

11. words e.g. baby, darling, etc may just be pet names to you, but they actually mean a lot.

12. a girl loves it when you tell her how was your day no matter rough or not, because she just wants to know.

13. you may wonder why a girl gets upset when you're upset and go crazy over it, but the truth is she's really just fretting that they cannot be there and enduring your pain for you.

14. girls love sense of humour. she always loves it when you make her smile, or laugh and that would just make her day. just the very knowledge of the fact that you can make her smile makes her happy.

15. girls love it when you're close to them because it makes them feel special and one-of-a-kind to be only yours.[so don't cheat on them!]

16. girls don't expect you to have a solution to their problems when they tell you about it. they just want to be able to know that you are there.

17. girls never say anything for the sake of saying it. they mean everything they say from the very bottom of their hearts.

18. don't show her mixed signs. if you care for her, let her know. they're probably thinking whether you care the same way.

19. you may think girls are complicated beyond words. but really, guys are just as hard to figure out for girls.

20. all a girl ever wants from you is your sincere love, honesty and loyalty to her. dont make her lose trust on you. it hurts her just as much as it hurts you.

21. your silence hurts.

22. don't shut her away without letting her know the reason. it makes her wonder. A LOT.

23. she often wonders just how much she means to you.

24. it hurts girls when you tell them that you don't know what to say.

25. if a girl likes talking to you, it's her way of saying she feels secure and comfortable with you. Let her know you'll be there for her.

26. girls remember everything. from the hurtful things you say to the most wonderful things you do for her.

>When you break her heart - [ the pain NEVER really goes away ]

> When she misses you - [ she's hurting inside ]

>When she says its over - [ she STILL wants you to be hers ]

>When she re-posts this bulletin - [ she wants you to read it ]

>When she walks away from you mad - [ Follow her]

>When she stare's at your mouth - [ Kiss her ]

-When she pushes you or hit's you - [ Grab her and don’t let go ]

>When she starts cursing at you - [ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]
>When she ignores you - [ Give her your attention]

>When she pulls away - [ Pull her back ]

>When you see her at her worst - [ Tell her she's beautiful ]

>When you see her start crying - [Just hold her and don’t say a word ]

>When you see her walking - [ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]

>When she's scared - [ Protect her ]

>When she lays her head on your shoulder - [ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]

>When she steals your favorite hat - [ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]

>When she teases you - [ Tease her back and make her laugh ]

>When she doesn’t answer for a long time - [ reassure her that everything is okay ]

>When she looks at you with doubt - [ Back yourself up with the TRUTH]

>When she says that she likes you - [ she really does more than you could understand ]

>When she grabs at your hands - [ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]

>When she bumps into you - [ bump into her back and make her laugh ]

>When she tells you a secret - [ keep it safe and untold ]

>When she looks at you in your eyes - [ don’t look away until she does ]

-DON'T let her have the last word-DON'T call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful is soo much better
- Say you love her more than she could ever love you- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go
- When she says she's OK don’t believe it, talk with her- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her